I'm starting to heal, but my spouse is not helping herself get better, She is pulling me down. What do I do to keep my healing going?
I have been doing extremely well in balancing my self on a daily basis following the revised wheel. I am feeling much better and more in control of my life. Some happiness is evident and I know my life is headed in the right direction. My concern however is my marriage partner...I am becoming more and more uncomfortable being around her. I've been doing well with my new start but she seems to be trying to put a negative spin on everything I'm doing even if they are positive actions. She sits at home and does nothing all day long; the book she was rushing me to order is still sitting on our desk at home unread. We have a very tight situation financially and it seems like she is not pulling her weight. Our views on life seem to be different and I wonder weather she may not be the healthiest person for me to be married to. I really don't see progress in her and am becoming very discouraged. It's tough because she is always speaking negative and has issues with everything under the sun and this environment is not healthy for me; what should I do?